I had a reading with Carla earlier today, after having one about a month ago. I have been involved in a complicated romantic situation. I sought Carla’s expert skills starting in June. She has guided me through this process and am happy to say, things are going very well. I have never been so happy. Girls. Whatever do you, do not CHASE a guy. DO NOT. Don’t be helpful, none of that. Matter of fact – treat him as if you would a guy you do NOT like! If he is interested he WILL come around and you will KNOW (feel) the change. You can avoid so much heartbreak and potentially losing him by just following that simple advice. It is HARD. But keep your eye on the prize – the man of your dreams. Distract yourself by seeing other guys…even as friends, taking up a hobby (other than him), spend time with friends, create emotional distance. I can’t stress this enough. Guys are the OPPOSITE of girls! They will see the contact as PRESSURE, NOT CARING. They will get TURNED OFF. Let them come to you. Don’t make yourself too available. Guys like to feel YOU are the prize and if you are always available, well, there isn’t much winning in THAT! Words to the wise and good luck!
Okay, so a month ago I had it sprung on me that this guy I have known now for close to a year (and to say things have been challenging would be an understatement) was not leaving for work for an undetermined period of time and doesn’t have cell contact. I needed consultations with Carla to determine what was in his head and what action I should take – would we make it? Oh, scary… but luckily there were a LOT of positive aspects to this pairing. Carla helped me navigate the choppy waters. I had my “fight or flight” instincts working overtime. She had to tell me to hang back, that that would bring him around. He was very highly tuned to even my most SUBTLE attempts. He also said some particularly mean and uncalled-for things to me when he announced he was leaving. I think so it would make it easier for him to be away. If he is MAD and makes ME mad, well, that would solve that. It solved it alright! His being a way (ended up being a week) made him want me more – just as Carla predicted. My response prior to speaking with Carla was to wish him a safe trip and that he would be missed. (I did not say “I will miss you.”) Carla also predicted he would be going away AGAIN for work (not just this one time), and be gone for the holidays.
True to what Carla said, almost two weeks ago he let me know that he was going away again (it was cancelled earlier) and then again in January! He was much more forthcoming with his plans than he had been prior. I guess he sensed it was “safe” to discuss these trips with me. Then two nights ago, I learned he is leaving the beginning of Dec. for a month – which will mean over Christmas and New Year’s. It was EXACTLY as Carla said! There is no way to have known this otherwise. These are the only trips he has taken in the nearly year I have known him.
Even during this difficult time, during the reading in October, Carla indicated she was seeing “flashes” of love – from him toward me. It helped me that Carla had told me he would be away periodically for the next several months, so when he told me, I was totally chill with it. It’s his job and I don’t want him worrying about me and not being able to handle it. Absence did and will make the heart grow fonder. By being supportive, it has brought us a lot closer. He has been a lot more open and trusting toward me with his thoughts and overall contact has improved and increased. Carla indicated a deep change in him with his attitude toward me. A love that she hadn’t seen before this reading. The bond is growing. I have felt that too. More openness and tenderness. Caution still – but definitely a big and positive change.
It is now a pleasure to take things slowly and watch them unfold. I know there is real love between us and it is developing slowly and deeply. There is no way this would have happened without Carla reading his intentions and feelings for me and what she saw for us for the future. I am so grateful to her and look forward to our continued relationship. Carla also gave not only the psychic “sight” but also gave me the tools I needed to make me a better and more desirable person to Jack. To be confident and secure. I am much more in a frame of mind to take it as it comes because I know he will be there and that there is a future on the horizon. That we are on the same wave length and even though we may be separated over the next couple of months, we are in each other’s heart, so there is no distance. I definitely do think this as the love of my life and it could have been lost without Carla’s psychic abilities guiding me.
More than once I asked Carla what “I” was getting out of this. Not because I was a selfish person, but because it seems I was doing all the “work” and all the bending and the hardest of all, all the WAITING. Carla said I am here to heal him. She would also say, “You get him. The person that makes you feel the way no one else does… that sets off the fireworks.” I think he has grown in this process too. Carla also said he has never had a grown up relationship like this, so didn’t always know how to respond to me. It was a lot to handle, not to mention also coming out of a MARRIAGE at the same time, but, things happen. And usually when least expected. There is no substitute for true love though. Carla also said we had a “severe karmic” thing going on. That isn’t necessarily a good thing… it is only good if it can “mature” into a soulmate relationship (you can ask Carla about this or go to the internet.) But it does indicate a STRONG connection. Carla had also stated that our relationship was predestined – already decided before we ever met. I think she said before we were born. It is very strong and powerful, unexpected and emotional; therefore, a lot of issues cropping up along the way. This is why Carla’s involvement was so necessary and so helpful. Now we are building a relationship that we BOTH want – and need.
Kym
Myrtle Beach, SC