I talked to Carla last night and had my third reading with her. It had been a couple of years since I had talked with her and she was just as easy to talk to as I remembered. When I spoke to her a couple of years ago, I had been single for about 6 years and I was real scared and picky about the next man I would let into my life, so I wanted her advice to help me decide.
I was seeing a guy at the time, and I asked Carla if he was the right one or not. She told me “no” and went into detail about the guy – she was dead on about everything she said! She told me that in June I would meet the right guy and that he would be mourning the loss of his wife or daughter, and I would meet him at a hospital or graveyard.
Well, in June – I found myself in the hospital visiting a friend that was in a coma. I had not been in a hospital in years – nor had to visit anyone in the hospital. The guy died, but I didn’t go to the funeral.
June came and went, and in July I met a guy, but he didn’t fit Carla’s “description,” so I contacted her again and asked if he was the one. She told me “no.” Carla went into detail about the guy, and how he would act when I ended the relationship. She was DEAD ON with everything she said!
Carla also said that the guy I was going to be with will be “mourning the loss of his wife or daughter” – and that I would meet him in spring. She stated that somehow he and I had bypassed each other that time around. How could she remember the same thing she had told me in the last reading, about the same guy losing his wife?!
Well – last spring, the last guy I had a real relationship with came back into my life. We were off and on all through summer, and some of fall, and I didn’t meet the right guy who had lost his wife. I kept in mind what Carla told me about the guy who lost his wife and figured we probably ‘bypassed each other’ again.
By the time this past spring came around, I had forgotten about what Carla said. Here I was – in the beginning of spring – I was out with some friends I usually don’t hang out with, and I found myself at a little bar I would have never gone to.
Well… low and behold – I’m outside, and this kind of tall stocky guy that was the doorman comes outside and introduces me to this short wiry guy. (This was yet another thing Carla had told me on that last reading – that I would be out with friends, and that a friend of his would be introducing us! ALSO – something about him being a wiry type of guy!)
He seemed so familiar to me, like I knew him, or had seen him before. He and I started talking, and from the moment we met – I felt this weird kind of pull because of his great personality. Also, I was intrigued because he was not drinking, but yet – was at a bar.
He begins to tell me that he’s a recovering addict, and that he doesn’t want to ever drink or do drugs again because he was trying to get his daughter back. When I asked where the mother was, he told me his wife died, and that was the reason he got into drugs and alcohol – because of the depression. It took all I had for my mouth not to drop to the floor! I knew this was the guy Carla had told me about 2 years ago! Also this guy is a wiry type of guy, full of energy and also an electrician. (Wiry, get it?! LOL)
We gave each other our numbers, and the next day we were on our first date. Part of me was scared to attempt this relationship because I had been in long term relationships with addicts in the past, and had gone through pure hell. But I could see a difference in him, where the others didn’t want to quit and didn’t get help – he did. There was a chemistry with us from the very beginning that I had not felt since the last man I was in a true relationship with – that had been like 8 years ago. (The same one I wasted my time with last spring.)
I have had friends with benefits and such, but never let anyone else into my life or heart in a very long time. He and I have been seeing each other since the beginning of spring. I have tried to push him away a few times because I’m scared of getting hurt, but something keeps pulling us back together. Also – weird coincidences seem to happen when we’re together. Among other things, a couple of different times we have had a dragonfly fly around both of us and land on the same thing and it would keep circling us both and do the same thing and the other day there was one on my antenna on my car and it would fly off around us and then land right back on the antenna and it did this a bunch of times and then another dragonfly joined it in the air and the other dragonfly landed on the antenna and started doing the same thing! Well when I talked to Carla last night, she told me that ‘dragonflies’ – in this instance – represented preparing for a possible death around me.
This, of course, worries me that someone in my family might die by the end of the year, but she said that she sees that I will be ok. I recently had a cousin on my dad’s side die last week, but I’m not close with my dad’s side of the family, and haven’t seen any of them since I was a child, so it didn’t bother me as much.
I called Carla because even though part of me knew he was the one, another part of me was wondering if he was cheating, or if this relationship would last or not. I’m so scared of getting hurt. She told me that he was not cheating, and that he seemed ‘distant’ because of a job situation.
Wow! She was dead on with that because as of last week, his unemployment ran out and he’s been trying his hardest to find a job. Also Carla said she saw a “marriage agreement” in the future for us! She put my mind at ease with this relationship. I think I’m ready to let my guard down finally with him.
I wish I had more time to talk with Carla. She is so great – and always dead on with what she says! Since I met this guy I have run into someone I haven’t seen since school, and also met a guy at his halfway house that lives in my ex-husband’s home town that knows my ex-husband and other weird stuff. I’m a true believer that people are put in our lives for a reason, and that all these weird coincidences are signs that he and I are meant to be together.
I asked him if he was in the hospital back in June of 2011 – and to my surprise, he said “YES!” He was in there because of an overdose! Maybe that’s why we ‘bypassed’ each other – because if he had been drinking or drugging, I would have not given him the time of day!
What are the odds that we meet in spring like Carla said?!! And that he was clean and sober, and that we ‘clicked.’ … Everyone who knows me knows I don’t jump into relationships, and that I have been single for a long time. I have not felt that ‘click’ with someone in 8 years despite going on many dates!
Oh, I forgot to mention that his wife died 3 years ago. Their daughter was only 2, and when he got into his deep depression and started using, he let his mom keep her so she wouldn’t be around it. Well… now he’s not only mourning the loss of his wife, but also his daughter – just like Carla said two years ago!!
He’s in the process of going to court to get her back because his wife’s father is a doctor, and made it to where he can’t even talk to his daughter on the phone. I see him cry a lot for that little girl and she’s all he thinks about.
I want everyone out there to know what Carla says you can take to heart. It might not happen that particular year – but it WILL happen.
And also for everyone out there who is single – wondering if ‘Mr. Right’ will ever show up – he WILL! Maybe you both are ‘bypassing each other’ due to things going on in your lives.
I also should mention that until this past November, I was not totally over my last relationship 8 years ago. I was still in love with my ex and kind of grieving the loss of that relationship. I was FINALLY over him in November and ready to move on with my life. Now ‘Mr. Right’ has finally showed up in my life!!
Carla, I can’t thank you enough. You truly are a blessing with your gift of seeing things we can’t see for ourselves. I’m sure you will hear from me in the future!