I have been so torn over what to do with my relationship with a married man. I have been with him for one year and cannot justify another year in this situation. I called Carla to help me move forward in letting this man go. I needed to know if we had a chance at being together or was he just stringing me along.
Carla stated that this married man will not leave his wife for me as it will appear too scandalous, a fact that I have believed for a long time. She also stated that even though he feels anguish every day in his marriage that he stays for the “appearance of things.” Again, something I suspected from day one.
She also confirmed that his wife is currently ill, something Carla could not have known. Carla picked up on something I have never talked about with anyone. He has expressed the ideal situation for us to be together is for his wife to pass. This way no money or property has to be divided and no shared custody of their kids. Carla could not have known about this as he had made those statements to me before. He has told me that it makes him so mad to think about giving his wife a dime in a settlement. Carla helped me confirm this man is not the one for me. I am disappointed but not really surprised by this. Carla urged me to let this guy go and predicted that my true ending where my heart heals will be around the end of summer. Something I cannot wait to happen.
I also explained that I have another single man in my life and that I am really not sure what to do with him as I am going through so much right now. Carla confirmed this man is a good man but needs to heal. I have felt that we have come together for other reasons than to be together and Carla’s reading is in perfect alignment with this belief. He is very sweet to me, something that I need right now. He is not the one for me but is helping me understand myself.
Carla gives me hope by explaining to me that I will emerge from this period of my life into the person I am supposed to be. That is HUGE for me. Carla told me that the married man will try to win me back with his charm and empty promises but that I will remain strong and will not give in. Carla also mentioned that someone worthy will come into my life around the end of summer or early fall. This gives me hope and peace that I am on the right path and all of the changes and letting go will be worth it!!!
Mitzi in AL